Is your love tank full ??/

I've been reading some great books lately and one of them has been The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman.I really enjoyed reading this book and primarily its about how to make sure your spouse knows how much you love him/her.And you should know what he/she desire and how you need to speak your spouse's love language so that your spouse knows and can see your love.Everyone talks about how the "in love" experience fades after you're married.I don't think that has to be the case.I believe this book can help us keep that "in love" experience much longer.I've listed The Five Love Languages below.The book goes into much greater detail on each language.

1.Words of Affirmation -- Your love tank is full when your spouse is showing appreciation to you,thanking you for the things you do,sharing words of encouragement,using words that build up(Thank you,I'm so proud of you,You look nice in that suit).
2.Quality Time -- You desire spending time with your spouse,probably not watching TV or multitasking but true quality time where you've conversation with one another and nothing is distracting you,giving your undivided attention.
3.Receiving Gifts -- You like receiving gifts from your spouse.These gifts don't always have to be expensive,they can be your favorite candy bar,a simple card which he/she took time to pick out specifically for you.
4.Acts of Service -- Your love tank is full when your spouse shows an act of service just to show his/her care and concern towards you.
5.Physical Touch -- This is,in fact,self-explanatory-you desire to be touched by your spouse.This could be holding hands,reaching out to you as he/she passes by,or randomly kissing your cheek and the like.

I suggest this book to anyone in a serious relationship,engaged or married.It really can bring out some things that you may not otherwise know about your spouse and what makes him tick.You could possibly be speaking your language but not the language of your spouse. Things you may be doing, could be meaningless to your spouse. If they desire Acts of Service and all you are doing is giving them gifts to show your love, you are not speaking the correct love language. Although, giving gifts may be your love language, it's unlikely that that is also your spouse's love language. Read the book and take the test to find your love language, you may be surprised but it could help or strengthen your relationship.

We still have hope as we still have real life heroes among us

This man Douglas Murphy is not someone extraordinary but what he did was extraordinary which reminds us of our duties towards the community we live in and of which we claim to be a part.But many of the times we fail to perform these duties which are associated with the membership.Murphy saved the life of an 88-year-old woman who fell on a subway track, risking his own life and the train missed him just by 6 seconds or so.
So,i think there are a lot more good human beings out there.They just need to be appreciated and recognised so as to foster the spirit of humanity just as Ellen did by calling the humanity hero to her show.

P.S. By the way Murphy has been prized with a holiday gift coupon of Sheraton Nassau Beach Resort at Bahamas and he says he would take his fiance with him for the holiday.

Read your girl's mind...

 

> When she says its over - [ she STILL wants you to be hers ]

> When she walks away from you mad - [ Follow her]

> When she stares at your mouth - [ Kiss her ]

> When she pushes you or hits you - [ Grab her and don’t let go ]

> When she starts cursing at you - [ Kiss her and tell her you love her ]

> When she ignores you - [ Give her your attention]

> When she pulls away - [ Pull her back ]

> When you see her at her worst - [ Tell her she's beautiful]

> When you see her start crying - [Just hold her and don’t say a word ]

> When you see her walking - [ Sneak up and hug her waist from behind ]

> When she's scared - [ Protect her ]

> When she lays her head on your shoulder - [ Tilt her head up and kiss her ]

> When she steals your favorite hat - [ Let her keep it and sleep with it for a night]

> When she teases you - [ Tease her back and make her laugh ]

> When she looks at you with doubt - [ Back yourself up with the TRUTH]

> When she says that she likes you - [ she really does more than you could understand ]

> When she grabs your hands - [ Hold hers and play with her fingers ]

> When she bumps into you - [ bump into her back and make her laugh ]

> When she tells you a secret - [ keep it safe and untold ]

> When she looks at you in your eyes - [ don’t look away until she does ]

And also some other general things :

> Stay on the phone with her even if she’s not saying anything

> DON'T let her have the last word

> DON'T call her hot, but gorgeous or beautiful is soo much better

> Say you love her more than she could ever love you

> Argue that she is the best girl ever

> When she's mad hug her tight and don't let go

> When she says she's OK don’t believe it, talk with her

> Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her

> Call her before you sleep and after you wake up

> Treat her like she's all that matters to you

> Stay up all night with her when she's sick

> Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show even if you think its stupid

> Give her the world

> Let her wear your clothes

> When she's bored and sad, hang out with her

> Let her know she's important

> Kiss her in the pouring rain

Its you i see...

iam not a property,
iam not an empty status,
i felt being left alone,
iam loosing you...

A Marriage Which Actually Never Took Place...

Hiii...today I've come across such a tormenting story which I'm not able to articulate in words(though I'm really good at this).It is a saddening yet inspiring story of two love birds who nurtured their romance in the corridors of IIT Kharagpur but as unfortunate they were,they couldn't consummate their love story as the guy got killed in the Mumbai 26/11 terror attacks.But the girl stayed resolute to her commitment to the guy and upheld the meaning of true love.SHE,in fact devised and organised the whole wedding affair and has also designed a website depicting and cherishing the moments of their love and descripting the marriage which actually never took place...
You can meet them at their official webpage at: http://www.mywedding.com/khushboomalayesh/index.html

Could you?//

"Could you let down your hair
And be transparent for a while
Just a little while
See if you're human at all
Honesty is a hard attribute to find
When we all want to seem like we've got it all figured out
I may be the first to say that I don't have a clue
I don't have all the answers
And god I pretend like I do just
Trying to find my way
Trying to find my way the best that I know how"